3 Words To Eliminate From Your Vocabulary
I am not oblivious to the fact that when you’re hard for me thinking clearly is not always easy. Good thing I’m here to help you not make a fool of yourself when your cock goes up and your I.Q. goes down.
There are 3 words that I recommend you remove from your vocabulary for when we play. If you do remove them, or at least know what they are communicating beyond the current colloquial uses, you will be better off. What do I mean by better off? More successful at being My good boy of course!!!
So here is My take on these three sneaky words: “want”, “try”, and “just”. I think you’ll appreciate learning about the hidden meanings.
If you look up the word “want” in a pre-1945 dictionary you’ll find 20+ definitions of “want” being “to lack” and one meaning, “ to desire”. The common/colloquial meaning now is, “to desire” but why use a word that is heavy laden with the meaning of lacking? Especially when there is such a different feeling you can give to your message when you get rid of “want”. Here are some examples.
If you message Me, “I want to buy you a gift” I will read it as, “I lack of buying you a gift”.
Shift your use of the word “want” and it can change a lot of how I see you and experience you. What if before you typed that message you bought the gift and instead were able to message Me, “Goddess I bought you a gift!” It’s WAY more fun for Me to get that kind of message!!!! Or if you are uncertain about what to get Me, that is simple too. “Goddess, I’d love to buy you a gift. Do you have something in mind that you would like me to buy for you?” It’s not about using My specific words, it’s about realizing what you send to Me might have different meanings than you intend.
Compare these two wordings and see which feels better to you, if you were looking to get Me a gift.
Good Boy: Goddess, I’d love to buy you a gift. Do you have something in mind that you would like me to buy for you?
Good Boy: Goddess, I want to buy you a gift. Do you have something in mind that you want me to buy for you?
Do they feel the same to you or do they feel different? I far prefer the first version. Sending sweet vibrations with your messages is a big part of your job as My good boy, so these seemingly minor changes make a huge difference to Me.
“Try” is to attempt with failure! There’s no reason to ever say you’ll try to do anything for Me. Does that sound foreign? I love gifts, as you know, so let’s do another gift-giving example, “I will try to get you a gift next week.” Yuck! Either buy Me a gift and surprise Me or buy Me a gift and let Me know it’s on its way.
“Trying” will not give you any points with me. Only doing will.
Forget “try” and you get to skip the equivocating and skip setting expectations that might or might not be met. You also must imagine how many messages I get about trying to be a good boy, or trying to get a video, or trying to do anything else. To Me, that all sounds like, “Blah, blah, blah”. This “try” word reveals much more about a person than their intention; it reveals they aren’t truly committed to doing what they’re talking about. Good thing it’s an easy word to ditch!
“Just” is another equivocal and sneaky word that also reveals something that I am not a fan of. It implies you being justified. What if there does not need to place for justness or rightness in our pleasure at all? Here is an example.
Say someone messaged me, “I just wanted to let you know I won’t be able to do our session later.”
So, it sounds like they’re adding a little word which minimizes the bad news. Nope. What I see is that person added a word that declares his justness (or righteousness). My guess is that you would never desire to add that kind of word in your communications with Me! I am the Goddess after all and the righteousness should lay solely with me.
Here is another way of approaching delivering that bad news, “Goddess, I am really sorry. I am not able to do our session we had planned tonight.”
Sometimes you might have to deliver bad news, but it’s ok! Sometimes other things come up and that’s not a problem. What is a problem is if there is ever disrespect coming My way because… yeah, not ok.
Here are a couple things to keep in mind if you ever have bad news to break to Me.
- Acknowledge that you realize you’re delivering something regrettable. For sure don’t pretend like it’s no big deal.
- Honor the privilege of being in touch with Me.
- A gift to make up for whatever it is will make both of us feel better.
This article is not to make you guarded of your speech or messages with me. It is to make it even easier for you to be my good boy. I have a great interest in your success as My good boy and I love when you improve your skills daily. The more awareness and social graces you have in your communication with Me, the more I will feel honored and enjoy our time and communications together. If you would like further training I really recommend the Intro Pack. You can see more details on it HERE.